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420
Is a code word used for marijuana smokers. You may see 420 Friendly posted on Swingers Profiles which would mean they are ok with people that smoke marijuana.
Bareback
Refers to sex without a condom.
Bi Curious
Is a hotly debated term. Sometimes used bi men or women that have never had a bi experience and are willing to or wanting to try it.
Bi Sexual
Refers to a person that has sex with both male and female partners.
Certified Swingers
In the swingers personals world this generally means that the swinger profile you are viewing has another member vouching for them as real swingers.
Condoms a Must
The opposite of Bareback. If you see this in a swingers personal add this means the swing Site member only will have sex with condoms.
D&D Free
Drug and disease free.
Discreet
The swinging world sometimes comes with pitfalls for those with very public lives. If you come across a member that has this in their profile they are very private about their swinging activities and want you to be as well when contacting them.
DP
Acronym for double penetration. This refers to simultaneous anal and vaginal sex. See also VDP.
Drama
Generally applies to swingers that are not ready for or should not be in the lifestyle. This refers to their jealousy and fighting whilst out with other swingers.
Drama free
This is used to indicate a couple or single that is comfortable in the lifestyle and free of jealousy and bickering.
Family First
If you come across this term when reading a lifestyle couples personal add the couple may have children or a family situation that makes it hard to drop everything and get out for fun. Couples that post this in their swingers profile usually will need a little more notice to make plans.
FMF
This is an acronym for female, male, female. Referring to sex with two women and one man.
Full Swap
A couple that is willing to switch partners with another couple and have sex including penetration.
Gangbangs
This is when a women has sex with multiple male partners at the same time. The women being the center of attraction.
Group Sex
Is a term used to describe multiple people having sex at the same time. See also Orgy.
Hall Pass
Is a term used by swingers to let others know that the couple is allowing one or both members to have sex without their significant other. Sometimes meaning the couple is willing to set up one on one sexual dates with other singles.
HWP
Is an acronym for height, weight proportionate.
Lifestyle
Refers to the swinging lifestyle. Used in swingers personal ads as an alternative to the word swinger. Instead of saying “We are a swinging couple.” The term will be substituted as “We are a lifestyle couple.”
LS
An abbreviation of “Lifestyle”. See also Lifestyle.
MFM
This is an acronym for male, female, male. Referring to sex with two men and one woman.
MFMF
This is an acronym for male, female, male, female. Referring to sex with two men and two woman together.
Mutual Masturbation
Refers to person that wants to masturbate in the presence of another that is also masturbating.
Orgies
Is a term used to describe multiple people having sex at the same time. See also Group Sex.
Play
A term used for sex in the lifestyle. Instead of saying “We would love o meet for drinks and see if it leads to sex.” You may see “We would love to meet for drinks and play later.”
Same Room
Refers to a couple that is comfortable with swapping partners with another couple but only in the same room. They wish to stay together while having sex with others.
Separate Room
Refers to a couple that wants to swap partners with another couple and be in separate rooms while having sex with that other couples partner.
Soft Swap
Is another hotly debated term. The best definition and most universal means there is to be no penetration outside of one’s own partner. Vaginal and anal sex with another’s partner is generally not allowed with soft swap couples. Touching, kissing along with mutual masturbation and oral sex are mostly referred to by soft swap couples.
Swapping
In the lifestyle or swinging community this refers to switching partners with another couple.
ThreeSome
This generally is a couple looking to bring in a 3rd (male or female)
for playtime.
V Safe
Refers to a male that has had a vasectomy
Swingers Acronyms Definitions
BiF
Bisexual Female
BiM
Bisexual Male
BiMF
Bisexual Married Female
BiMM
Bisexual Married Male
BDSM
Bondage/Discipline/Domination/Submission/Sadism/Masochism
CD
Cross-dresser
CPL
Couple
DBF
Divorced Black Female
DBM
Divorced Black Male
DDF
Drug and Disease Free
DD’s
Double D Chest Size
Dom
Dominant (male)
Domme
Dominant (female)
DP
Double Penetration
D/S
Domination/Submission
DWF
Divorced White Female
DWM
Divorced White Male
F/T
Full Time
F2F
Face-to-Face
F4F
Women For Woman
F4M
Women For Man
F4MF
Women For Man Women
GSOH
Good Sense of Humour
GBF
Gay Black Female
GBM
Gay Black Male
GWF
Gay White Female
GWM
Gay White Male
HWP
Height/Weight Proportional
ISO
In Search Of
IRL
In Real Life
ILU
I Love You
LOL
Laugh(ing) Out Loud
LTR
Long Term Relationship
LFG
Looking for a group
LDS
Latter-day Saints
LDR
Long Distance Relationship
LGBT
Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender
LS
Lifestyle
M4M
Man For Men
M4W
Man For Women
MBA
Married But Available
MBF
Married Black Female
MBM
Married Black Male
MF4MF
Man Women For Man Women
MF4F
Man Women For Women
MF4M
Man Women For Man
MJF
Married Jewish Female
MJM
Married Jewish Male
MM
Married Men
MWC
Married With Children
MWF
Married White Female
MWM
Married White Male
NSA
No Strings Attached
PF
Professional Female
PM
Professional Male
P/T
Part time
RPG
Role Playing Games
RL
Real Life
SAF
Single Asian Female
SAM
Single Asian Male
SALT
Single and Loving It
SBF
Single Black Female
SBM
Single Black Male
SCF
Single Christian Female
SCM
Single Christian Male
SHF
Single Hispanic Female
SHM
Single Hispanic Male
SINK
Single Income No Kids
SJF
Single Jewish Female
SJM
Single Jewish Male
SM
Sadism/Masochism (S&M)
SOH
Sense of Humor
Sub
Submissive
SWF
Single White Female
SWM
Single White Male
SO
Significant Other
SWALK
Sealed With A Loving Kiss
TV
Transvestite
TS
Transsexual
VDP
Vaginal Double Penetration
W4M
Women For Men
W4W
Women For Women
W/E
Well-endowed
WLTM
Would Like To Meet
XOXO
Hugs and Kisses
Swingers Video Chat Acronyms Definition
AML
All My Love
AKA
Also known as
AFAIC
As far as I'm concerned
ACK
Acknowledgement
AFAICS
As Far As I Can See
ASAP
As Soon As Possible
AWOL
Absent Without Leave
B4
Before
CU
See You
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
FYI
For Your Information
g
Grin
Grrrr
Growling!
IMO
In my opinion
IMHO
In My Humble/Honest Opinion
IM
Instant Messaging
LOL
Laugh(ing) Out Loud
LMAO
Laugh(ing) My Ass Off
N/A
Not Applicable
N/S
Non-Smoker
POV
Point Of View
RE
Regarding
RLF
Real Life Friend
TNX
Thanks
TY
Thank You
VM
Voice Mail
WTF
What The Fuck
W/O
Without
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